My boyfriend is absolutely incredible, he respects me, loves me and he’s my best friend. It’s been over 4 months and I still haven’t let him had sex with me because I’m really insecure about my breasts. I’m a small double A cup and my boyfriend loves boobs. Sounds really pathetic but every time i’m with him I wear a gel bra to enhance my none existent breasts. Since I turned 17 i’ve always wanted to get breast implants to build my confidence about my body and make me feel more like a woman. I’m considering getting it done very soon as I have the money, and i’ve thought about it for over 2 years now. However, my boyfriend put his status up on his facebook page a while back before I met him saying how much he "hates" breast implants. I’m worried that keeping him waiting for so long and me deciding to get breast implants will just end up pushing him away. I just really need an insight into this and some advice if anyone has been in a similar position? Thank you x
You shouldn’t keep things from him. Sounds like he’s a solid guy and he’s not with you for your boobs (fake, real, big small…doesn’t matter). Explain what you’ve just told us and tell him you want implants for yourself - not for him and then go for it.
August 1st, 2011 at 12:22 pm
Tell him how you feel. Small breasts doesnt mean bad breasts. Many beautiful women look good with them and big, fake boobs always look kinda silly. Look at Daisy, for example. Nautural is always better.
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August 1st, 2011 at 12:37 pm
You shouldn’t keep things from him. Sounds like he’s a solid guy and he’s not with you for your boobs (fake, real, big small…doesn’t matter). Explain what you’ve just told us and tell him you want implants for yourself - not for him and then go for it.
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August 1st, 2011 at 12:57 pm
Hey, okay well you’re only 17 and a womans breasts tend to continue developing up until you’re 19/20. So I think getting implants now would be a very bad idea.
I think if you’re boyfriend loves and respects you, you should be able to bring it up with him. Tell him you know he prefer’s big breasted ladies and you wonder if you’d be enough for him. I bet he will reassure and convince you that you’re the only person he wants…breast size doesn’t matter to him.
It’s a strange thing. Some people have an idea of what they want in a partner…the things that turn them on…then they meet someone who could be the complete opposite who totally blows their mind and blows all the other superficial crap out of the water! I think this might be the situation with you and your boyfriend.
Another thing, I think if you sleep with him before you get implants (provided you’re comfortable enough to actually sleep with him) that you’ll feel more confident in yourself. I hope that you’re considering implants for yourself and nobody else!
Good luck…I bet you’re beautiful as you are.
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August 1st, 2011 at 1:06 pm
Bloody girls and yer bleedin’ breast implants! I’m with yer boyfriend on this one, I’m afraid, hon. Yer boyfriend’s datin’ YOU, NOT yer bloody knockers! Why can’t you bloody girls EVER just be happy with what God gave ya?! I think it’s bloody pathetic, quite frankly! And on the subject of sex, if yer boyfriend loves and respects ya as much as ya say he does, then he’ll be willin’ to wait until yer ready to sleep with him. The lack of sex SHOULDN’T cause any problems between ya- however, the breast implant surgery MIGHT! Beware, hon, beware! Peace and love! Be lucky!
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August 1st, 2011 at 1:29 pm
About a year ago I was just an a cup….i’m a 32D now
See the thing is your still only 17, they could still go.
Theres lots of options, mine happened to get bigger when I got the pill
you know theres naturarl methods of brest inlargment too
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August 1st, 2011 at 2:00 pm
I lost both my breasts at the age of 34 to breast cancer.Appreciate what you have, healthy, natural breasts. When I was in hospital, a girl in the plastic surgery ward with me that was in the bed next to me was having her implants removed as her body had rejected them, also implants make it more difficult to detect early signs of cancer.You have to have them replaced every few years too.
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August 1st, 2011 at 2:15 pm
WILL I WOULDN’T IF I WAS YOU BECAUSE GOD MADE YOU HOW YOU LOOK ..AND IF YOUR BOYFRIEND DON’T LIKE BECAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE BIG BOOBS THEN JUST FIND SOME BODY THAT WILL..BUT HE SOUNDS LIKE THE THE TYPE OF GUY THAT LOVE YOU FOR WHO YOU IS NOT WHAT YOU GOT
LOVE,NEHSA
I HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT
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August 1st, 2011 at 2:36 pm
This may sound silly but if he loves you and respects you as much as you say then he will understand that you want to do this for you and your confidence. You shouldn’t be thinking about what he wants. If you haven’t even got the confidence to have sex because of it then clearly you need to do something about it. Surgery may not be the answer but you need to do it for you. I’m sure if you tell him your concerns he will assure you that you have nothing to worry about and I’m sure he will stick by you and if he doesn’t. Well, do you really want to be with someone who doesn’t care about your needs?
I wouldn’t say I’m in a similar position at all. Quite the opposite really. I have naturally really big boobs and my ex loved it but when I lost weight he didn’t find me as attractive anymore when they started to go smaller. It hurt. I wanted to put the weight back on for him and I did but then I was unhappy. I knew for my health I needed to lose that little bit of weight and for my confidence so he was not worth it.
In the end you have to do whats best for you.
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August 1st, 2011 at 3:24 pm
At 17 your body can feel like your worst enemy. There are fake photos everywhere of beautiful women and we’re expected to compete with that.
All I can say is that ‘real’ men like ‘real’ women. Your boobs are part of you and he loves you. Be proud of them whatever size they are.
It’s not just your boobs he’s going to be looking at!
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August 1st, 2011 at 4:10 pm
why do women need to do this !!!
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